We all have grudges against people.

But be careful, if you hold on to a grudge for too long, it might come back and get you.

I think it's about time I said something.

We are all entitled to voice out our opinions. You can think what you want to think, or say what you want to say. I totally respect that.

I just think that a couple's domesticated problems are between a couple. And I am sure that the Oxford, Collins or any other dictionary would define a couple as TWO people. Not one, not three, neither four. So what I do not get is why should issues between a couple (again TWO people) involve the rest of the family, neighbour, dog, cat, kids, mother, father, George Clooney, Brad Pitt, Jennifer Aniston or whoever?!

If anyone has a problem, damn well take ownership of your problem and deal with it. The rest of us busybodies should just mind our own business and not stick our nose into other people's affairs.

And who are we to judge? Who are we to point fingers at someone at deem that she made a mistake and deserve to burn in hell forever?

I beg your pardon, am I missing a beat here but did you make the rules? Did I make the rules? Who's to say what is right or wrong?! Is it you? Or me? Or society? Or God? Don't be so quick to judge people.

We can be such hypocrites and one-track minded creatures of life. The minute someone brainwashes us with evidence to back up the case, we jump at conclusions, summarize the accused in 2 seconds and label her the B*TCH.

Come on people, look at ourselves. I know for a fact that some people close to us that are no angels too. There might be a certain someone who has stepped into two boats with one foot. Oh, but just because there was no legal binding contract called "marriage" involved, that makes it *pauses for a minute*, that makes it OKAY?

All I can say is that you will never understand why a murderer commits murder, why a smoker smokes, why a mother abandons her child, or why an adulterer commits adultery until we find ourselves in their shoes.

It might not be the same situation but a similar circumstance might present itself to us in another way. We are so quick to judge others because we have yet to fully experience what life has in store for us. We are simply frogs in the well. Having traveled so far and wide, can I say that I have seen and experienced everything yet? Hell no.

This world has so much to offer. You will not experience poverty till you see a barefooted mother with a child in her arms begging for loose change in the markets of Casablanca. You will not know what a wonder of the world is till you climb the Great the Wall of China. You have not seen the beauty that nature can bring till you touch the waters of the Niagara Falls. You do not know how fast technology has advanced till you’ve landed on the runway, seated on the Airbus380.

You just will not know what other people have gone through or are going through till you experience a similar circumstance for yourself. Life has so much to offer so NEVER say NEVER. Don’t be so sure that the same will not happen to you. Stop being so one-track minded and start broadening your horizons.

Lastly, for those of you who think that going to court with your little cheerleading leading team, banners and pompoms is called support, fair enough, do as you please. Although we are family, there are some boundaries and personal space that we need to draw. There is a fine line between support and the burning desire within us to point fingers and laugh at the accused when the judge convicts her.

Personally, I think that there are more people in this world who genuinely need your support. So here’s a thought, why don’t you log on to http://www.compassion.com.au and lend your support by sponsoring a child today?